Mikes Place Bulletin Board

Hey all here i want to share some good tips for first date...

A good first date tip: start simple. Some of the best conversation questions are the most basic. Ask about a date’s family – siblings, parents, even pets. But don’t just ask dates how many brothers and sisters they have, ask about those siblings’ line of work, where they live, and especially about the relationship the date has with them. The best first date questions are fun, personal, and revealing. The family is an intimate part of most people’s lives, and is a great topic to start a conversation with.

Another good conversation topic is work. A lot of good conversation questions can revolve around a date’s work, because after all, it is probably what occupies a big chunk of his or her time and energy most every day, so they’ve got it on the mind. That being said, often times work is the last thing some people want to talk about on a date because they’re exhausted from it. If the conversation question hits flat, leave the topic be, but if a date is very engaged in their line of work, this can be a great conversation topic to pursue.

If work is a drag, some of the best conversation questions can center on hobbies and other interests. Starting a conversation about people's hobbies can lead into a long and fruitful conversation because it engages what they’re most interested in. Ask about a date’s hobbies, and be willing to share one’s own. This conversation topic can be especially rewarding if both parties find some overlap of interests, or even inspire interest in one another. Regardless, the topic of hobbies is a great conversation starter.

Not set in stone,.. just my thoughts. If you are meeting at Mike's Place, more often than not the conversation starts with questions and comments about Mike's Place. For instants... Have you been here before; have you been to any other clubs; Do you like it? And also break up the questions by telling your date if you like it or have been to other clubs. Maybe tell your date about other experiences and nice people you have met. Don't bombard your date with questions. Be prepared to listen.. Yes some people like to talk about work but most are happy not to. It can be of common interest when meeting another similar couple/person at the club that questions of family and or children will be asked. But if one asked too many questions about family it can get a little awkward and personal and even feel like you are being interigated. Dating is usually a private and personal thing which the first time usually doesn't involve family members,..at least not the first time. If the first date is at Mike's place, ones mind is usually on relaxing, unwinding from work and sex. Yes talking about hobbies can be fun and more light hearted but I wouldn't want it to turn into a long conversation. Change the subject often enough that your date doesn't get board. no matter what you choose to talk about, keep it fun, happy and light hearted and maybe sexy(not rude).

haha
the last things i want to hear about at Mikes is kids and work talk..

leave that for during the week weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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Yep

i must say that some people will have some interesting conversations out in the smokers area...
if looking for a place to chat to others,
maybe you can start there..........

(singing) : "lets talk about sex baby ..............
lets talk about YOU and me ..........."

(continuing to sing, very badly) ".... lets talk about all the good things and the bad things..."

sorry couldnt resist lol